[Glossary] – Door, home to their son or daughter, son and daughter, as well as usual their 1 / 8 genetically alike little life. Since then, Hanyinongsun into their new go. Enjoy their grandchildren meantime their heart has a lot of roaming a diplomatic land because of solitude and difficulties arising from … … to care for these third-generation when away from home, the parents came to a strange metropolis, known as the .
LONDON May 6 news: According to the Recently, this journalist approached Shanghai day off right. Many users are talking about the gifts to the mother in the end the most appropriate, but in the thick air of love, friends newhug has sent a cumbersome micro-Bo: Well, I feel like every day in jug.
two years ago, newhug maternity leave, because she and her husband are working appearance Shanghai, journal work was very busy, she can take her mother (Xu aunt) to Shanghai to help children. Less than six months, Xu 1st came to great aunt lost the excitement of Shanghai, can not run the loneliness, she germination of the
overwhelm the mother’s last straw was her deteriorating body. Excess energy to the elderly is laborious to cope with the little guy, backache, leg ache did not say, she found herself scale up inert answer for some period, got very anxious approximately what their own old age disease, Xu aunt began to control their feelings, occasionally inexplicable vexed. newhug said his reflection, possibly for her mommy can not interact in the Shanghai people face every day in counting to children, but also rare and their own say a few words, my mama thought so active for the incipient.
Xu aunt confessed emotion lonesome, contented.
[Correspondent inquiry] has no friends, homesickness, loneliness is a universal life state
Yesterday, the reporter-initiated micro-network fast transmit showed that 74% of consumers, around the drift race
■ the most difficult: no friends
into the middle-aged for the feel like a
Aunt Lee has four daughters, settled in various places afterward graduation, made her like migratory birds, the first two years in Beijing, two years in Shanghai, and the next two to three years, has been early to be settled in Chengdu’s daughter It is in this wandering in the passive, alienated from her friends and family and home a lot, and sometimes hard-won via call calls, chatting chatting will find that actually impress.
■ most cared about: the antique couple in two areas
Shanghai’s
from Gansu to the Tang aunt, and his wife a year ago is the same automobile to Shanghai. But his wife’s diet and climate for Shanghai not accustom, not to the six months to go home. Lifetime of elated couples had not been separated, had separated the two.
■ most reality: regional health insurance did not carry their own sick
not due to local health care, these time consuming, it
nag aunt apt care for grandchildren, in Shanghai, has spent four alternatively 5 years. From the end of last annual, her center felt very uncomfortable, to companion her son to look a physician, the doctor said she does have heart problems, yet need to do body check, yet the horse aunt strongly disagreed. Because of his remedial warranty is not in Shanghai, whether you see a doctor in Shanghai, basic to their own money.
■ the most entangled: to let work and not have the heart
has of sorts embarrassment and worries, most of the burden. However, the reality so namely this burden can be lost is not to mention lost. Some elderly folk to rinse their hands even beneath the marble, but by the last minute, or behind to aid the child, the duration becomes family among the foreseeable future. concert, Aunt Lee left Shanghai a few months ahead the second daughter. However, the second daughter of a agreeable performance, the company intends to bring her last year to learn abroad. Hear the good news, but perturbed aunt Lee could not sleep: p>
[specialist opinion] This is a new stage of China’s fast-paced phenomenon
advocate them, so there are numerous elderly people left home, came to Shanghai and other cities. Psychologist Linzi said that in dealing with 3 generations of home counseling, she also found that more contact with elderly people in the additional; In addition, look in livelihood is required, both to recover the past hobbies, we can practice tai chi, dancing and other current liking, perhaps in the process to ascertain is compatibility of the new friends. If two children and the elderly because the two separated, attention must always call every other. (edit: SN026)
